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EPISODE 10 · Sep 17, 2026

Why You Don’t Feel Like Yourself with Cassie Milligan

Nurse practitioner Cassie Milligan explains perimenopause symptoms, why normal labs may not mean optimal, and how thyroid, adrenals and gut affect how you feel.

Hosted by Bree Allred, PT, DPT, PRPC

Featuring Cassie Milligan

32 min

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Many women describe the same quiet frustration: they are sleeping seven or eight hours and still waking up tired, gaining weight around the middle without changing their eating or activity, feeling anxious in a way they never used to, and generally not feeling like themselves. Then they go to the doctor, have labs drawn, and hear that everything looks normal. Common as that experience is, it does not mean nothing is happening in your body.

In this episode of Healing At Your Core, host Bree Allred, PT, DPT, PRPC sits down with Cassie Milligan, a family nurse practitioner and owner of Revive Wellness and Aesthetics, to talk about perimenopause, hormone optimization, and why a whole-body look at your health often explains symptoms a basic lab panel misses. You will learn what perimenopause actually is, which symptoms bring women into Cassie's office most often, and what the major hormone players do.

Why Cassie Milligan Says "Normal" Labs Don't Always Explain How You Feel

Cassie Milligan started her career as a nurse, then moved into primary care as a family nurse practitioner. That experience shaped how she practices today. In an insurance-based model, she explains, a provider has a limited amount of time and a limited panel of labs. If the basic numbers fall inside the reference range, the visit ends there.

Normal's not optimal.

That distinction sits at the center of her work. Standard lab reference ranges, she notes, were largely built from research on white males, and ranges can also differ by ethnicity. So a value that technically falls "in range" may still be far from where a particular woman feels well.

Her approach narrows the target range and, more importantly, pairs it with what a patient is actually experiencing. She described a woman whose ferritin comes back at 60 and who feels exhausted and foggy. Another person at that same number might feel fine. The number that matters is the one where your symptoms ease.

Labs can be wrong, symptoms usually aren't.

What Perimenopause Is and When It Can Begin

Perimenopause is the stretch of time when your body is preparing for menopause. Cassie explains that hormones begin declining and fluctuating during this phase, while menopause itself is when the ovaries are no longer releasing estradiol. Perimenopause can last years, and it can begin as early as age 35.

Bree offered an analogy that captures the unpredictability: it can feel like small thruster jets firing on a rocket. Sometimes both engines are on full. Sometimes one misfires. That is why one month can bring a very heavy period, the next month nothing, and the month after that only light spotting.

Those surges are part of the process, not a sign that you are imagining things. As Cassie put it, this is your body preparing for what is to come, and there are ways to support that transition rather than simply riding it out.

The Symptoms Women Report Most Often

When Bree asked what brings women through the door, Cassie listed patterns she hears again and again:

  • "I don't feel like myself anymore"
  • Trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or both
  • Weight gain around the abdomen despite no real change in habits
  • Night sweats and hot flashes, including waking up warm or drenched
  • Fatigue that persists even after a full night's sleep
  • Brain fog, joint aches, bloating, and even itchy ears

Sleep and fatigue are the two she hears most. Many women assume the fatigue is simply the result of poor sleep, but she cautions that there is often more underneath it. Your body is communicating something, and those symptoms are worth investigating rather than dismissing.

Looking Beyond Sex Hormones

Cassie's functional approach looks at the body as a whole, not hormones in isolation. Gut health, liver function, adrenals, thyroid, and iron storage all influence how you feel and how well hormone support works.

Thyroid, Adrenals, and Iron

She calls the thyroid the captain of the ship, since thyroid receptors sit on essentially every organ. The adrenals, two small glands on top of the kidneys, release cortisol, which should peak in the morning and taper by evening. Under sustained stress, that rhythm can flip, leaving cortisol elevated at night when you are trying to sleep. Adrenals also produce DHEA, which she describes as a kind of bus driver directing hormones down the right pathway.

For iron, she looks at ferritin rather than serum iron alone, because ferritin reflects stored iron. As Bree put it, it is the savings in the bank. This matters especially in perimenopause, when heavy or erratic bleeding can drain those stores and contribute to fatigue.

The Hormones, in Plain Language

Hormones attach to receptors and tell cells what to do. Cassie described estrogen as a master hormone with wide-reaching support for mood, bone, cardiovascular health, brain, and gut. Progesterone is the calming counterbalance, supportive of sleep, brain, adrenals, and gut. She also noted that progesterone is not only for women with a uterus, though progestin, the synthetic form used in birth control, is different. Testosterone she describes as drive, endurance, and motivation. She also routinely checks sex hormone binding globulin, which influences how estrogen and testosterone are processed and cleared.

Action Steps

  • Write down your symptoms before your next appointment, including sleep quality, energy, mood, cycle changes, and anything that feels unlike you. Symptoms carry information that a single lab value cannot.
  • Ask whether your evaluation has looked beyond a basic panel, including full thyroid, adrenal function, and ferritin rather than serum iron alone.
  • If you are told your labs are normal but you still do not feel well, ask what optimal looks like for you specifically, and seek a clinician who is willing to take that conversation further.
  • Take stress seriously as a physiological input, not a personality flaw. Chronic pressure can affect adrenal and gut function, and nervous system regulation is part of the picture.
  • If pelvic symptoms are also part of your experience, a pelvic floor evaluation can help you understand what is happening and what your options are.

You know your body, and you deserve answers that match what you are actually experiencing. Feeling unlike yourself is common in perimenopause, but common is not the same as something you simply have to live with. If your symptoms are affecting your comfort, sleep, or confidence, request an appointment and start with a conversation about the whole picture. For more on that theme, listen to Common Doesn't Mean Normal.

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HAYC Cassie Milligan - Why You Don’t Feel Like Yourself with Cassie Milligan Part 1 ​[00:00:00] Bree Allred: [00:00:05] [00:00:10] [00:00:15] [00:00:20] [00:00:25] I hear women say all the time that they don't feel like themselves anymore. [00:00:30] If you're exhausted and you're getting eight hours of sleep, you're waking up not feeling rested, you're not [00:00:35] sleeping through the night, you are struggling with just feeling [00:00:40] overwhelmed a lot of the time, maybe new anxiety when you've never struggled with that before, um, you're [00:00:45] getting unexpected weight gain without significant changes to your diet or to your activity levels, this is [00:00:50] a lot of what people are dealing with, and we're here to talk about your questions today. If you're one of those people [00:00:55] where you've gone to the doctor, you've gotten labs drawn, and you're told everything [00:01:00] is normal, this episode is for you so we have Cassie Milligan with us today. We're so excited to [00:01:05] chat with her. So Cassie, tell us a little bit about yourself. And she is the owner of Revive [00:01:10] Wellness and Aesthetics. Mm-hmm. And really an expert in hormones is really what your [00:01:15] practice focuses around, and helping women in these exact situations. Cassie Milligan: Exact, yes. Bree Allred: So tell us a little [00:01:20] bit about you and then what made you get into this area of [00:01:25] work. Cassie Milligan: I'm Cassie Milligan. Yes, I do own Revive Wellness and Aesthetics. So I am [00:01:30] a family nurse practitioner. I was a nurse for a really long time, and decided that I [00:01:35] wanted to go back and get my nurse practitioner, and I wanted to do family because it's such a [00:01:40] broader spectrum. I can see from infant to death, basically. So I got my [00:01:45] nurse practitioner, and I started in primary [00:01:50] care, and working in primary care really showed me how broken our system is. So [00:01:55] like even patients coming in when I did primary care would be like, "I went to another practitioner and they like [00:02:00] checked all my labs and everything was normal." And like normal's not optimal. Even doing the [00:02:05] primary care, I found that implementing more of like the [00:02:10] holistic part of primary care, I saw really good results. [00:02:15] Not with just hormones, but like young girls with anxiety or depression. And [00:02:20] so I decided that I wanted to do a lot more education in the functional [00:02:25] realm and hormone optimization 'cause you don't learn that deep in [00:02:30] nurse practitioner school. Yeah. Or medical school for that matter- Yeah ... Bree Allred: if you're going there Cassie Milligan: as well. Yeah. It's [00:02:35] very basic, and I always tell my patients I understand why, because I did do primary [00:02:40] care, that like when it's insurance-based practice you do have to [00:02:45] see a lot of patients in one day. And so whatever [00:02:50] labs I check whatever I do with them really I only have the time that I [00:02:55] have right? So if I'm checking a very basic panel, I can say, "Yeah, everything's normal," and send you on your [00:03:00] way so that I can see the next patient. , And I think that's where our system has failed us. [00:03:05] Yeah. So it's just a lot deeper. So even if I try to do more labs in [00:03:10] primary care, you know, insurance wouldn't cover it. They didn't think it was necessary. Part of insurance-based [00:03:15] practice. Yeah. So I did a... I've done a lot of education. I continue in [00:03:20] education. Like last weekend I was in Colorado doing education. So it's always getting the [00:03:25] up-to-date stuff- Bree Allred: Yeah ... Cassie Milligan: is what I, like, really love. Bree Allred: Being on that cutting edge, knowing exactly- [00:03:30] Mm-hmm what the research is saying or what's up and coming and being studied and the Cassie Milligan: research. Yeah, 100%. And so, like, I [00:03:35] even come back from conferences and I'm like, "Oh, I wanna implement this." Like, I think this is a really [00:03:40] cool, like, jump into this or, you know, the... It's always changing and there's always [00:03:45] updates, and I really love that, and taking the pearls that I learn at these [00:03:50] conferences. Even if it's, like, something I've heard 100 times, there's always, like, specific pearls that I'm [00:03:55] like, "Oh I need to do this. I need to implement this." That's a new way that I hadn't thought of implementing- Yeah ... this Bree Allred: before. Yeah. [00:04:00] I wanna implement this into my practice. And kind of fun in the cash-based world that we have the abilities- Yeah to do that, [00:04:05] like, immediately. It's not- Immediately ... "Oh, okay, let's go back through the system and jump through all these [00:04:10] hoops and get it approved." Cassie Milligan: Yeah. And I feel like my patients see the optimization- Mm-hmm ... uh, you know, of their [00:04:15] health. So with the continuing education that I've done I have done a lot [00:04:20] of continuing education on hormone optimization peptide [00:04:25] therapy IV therapy. Mm-hmm. I even do education in that, right? So it's... You know, [00:04:30] aesthetics, I also do education in that. It's just like there's always learning- Bree Allred: Yeah ... Cassie Milligan: [00:04:35] that can be had. So- And we can Bree Allred: keep going and learning and growing and- Yes ... and just becoming better [00:04:40] and better at what Cassie Milligan: we do. Yes, 100%. So after, like, [00:04:45] primary care, I'm... I really... I always wanted to kind of start my own practice, and [00:04:50] I had, like, all this whole vision. But doing, yes, doing hormone [00:04:55] optimization, and optimization is very different than you're in range. Mm. Right? So doing the [00:05:00] hormone optimization, but also, like- Continuing with the [00:05:05] aesthetics piece, the IV therapy piece Mm-hmm I do enjoy that stuff. That's [00:05:10] kind of like my fun stuff, where like the hormone optimization is like really [00:05:15] my, my bread and butter. Your passion. Mm-hmm. This is my passion, yes. So yeah, opening Revive [00:05:20] was really about bringing a service to Cache Valley [00:05:25] that like I wasn't seeing anywhere else. Now there's a lot of clinics that do hormone [00:05:30] optimization, and they're not doing anything wrong. I feel like what sets me apart is the [00:05:35] functional side of things and- Uh-huh ... and not just looking at just the hormones, but looking at [00:05:40] gut health, mindset your adrenals, right? It's just taking your [00:05:45] body as a whole, is kind of what- Bree Allred: Because hormones is this small little part Cassie Milligan: of it small little [00:05:50] part of it Bree Allred: And it can make a huge difference, but also if your gut isn't right, the hormones aren't gonna- Cassie Milligan: They're not [00:05:55] gonna regulate ... they're not gonna Bree Allred: optimize- Cassie Milligan: Yes ... the same way. Yes. So looking at the body as a [00:06:00] whole just kind of, I feel like sets me just a little bit apart from other [00:06:05] clinics that are doing... I feel like we all have the same goal. We want to have our [00:06:10] patients feel better, right? Yeah. So yeah, just including that, that functional [00:06:15] side of things is just kind of the optimization- Bree Allred: Yeah ... if Cassie Milligan: that makes sense. Bree Allred: That [00:06:20] gets that little bit of extra- Mm-hmm ... kind of what makes you unique- Yeah ... in what you're doing as well. Cassie Milligan: Yeah, yeah. Yeah. [00:06:25] And that, I mean, that functional piece also is the IV therapy. Bree Allred: Mm-hmm. Cassie Milligan: Right? So there are [00:06:30] certain IVs that really do help. Like, I am now offering [00:06:35] iron IVs infusions so that you don't have to go to the hospital, which is like a really big [00:06:40] piece of optimization when it comes to hormones and thyroid that- A lot of [00:06:45] people don't understand- Bree Allred: Oh, yes that piece. And especially in, like, perimenopause, right? Yes. Where we have [00:06:50] such big fluctuations in our- Mm-hmm ... menstrual cycle, and- Oh, Cassie Milligan: yeah ... Bree Allred: there are some that might [00:06:55] be on the, "I'm bleeding all the time." All the time. And you're losing so much iron when you're doing [00:07:00] that. Cassie Milligan: Yes. Bree Allred: And that can probably be a big factor of the fatigue. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. Right? A huge [00:07:05] factor of fatigue. Yeah. Yeah. So, like, looking at that, like, a lot of practitioners will just look at an iron, [00:07:10] and that's not what I'm looking at. I'm looking at a ferritin- Mm-hmm ... which is, like, the storage. [00:07:15] So, like, if you don't have that storage built up, you're gonna have symptoms of [00:07:20] iron like- Deficiency deficiency. Bree Allred: Because Cassie Milligan: you don't Bree Allred: have the, the backlog- Right ... that you need. You don't have the savings in the bank. Cassie Milligan: [00:07:25] Right, right. Where you have, yes, this little iron hanging out in your [00:07:30] blood, but not the storage- Yeah ... which is, like, the, the bigger piece, especially when it comes to [00:07:35] thyroid optimization. So- Bree Allred: Yeah Cassie Milligan: it's just kind of a whole- And Bree Allred: thyroid plays into [00:07:40] hormone, and- Cassie Milligan: 100%. Bree Allred: Like, oh my gosh, all Cassie Milligan: these great connections. And adrenal Bree Allred: then, yes. And lots of people aren't looking [00:07:45] at all of those components. It's like, "Oh, you may just be getting the hormone piece." And it's like, "I'm still exhausted." Well- Cassie Milligan: [00:07:50] Yeah, yeah ... Bree Allred: has anybody looked at your iron? Has anybody looked at your thyroid function? Cassie Milligan: Yeah. Like, all of that. It's like, and the whole [00:07:55] thyroid. Yeah. Like, not just a piece of your thyroid. There is- really a [00:08:00] benefit of looking at the entire thing, and understanding the entire thing- Bree Allred: Mm-hmm ... Cassie Milligan: and why you're not [00:08:05] feeling optimal based on optimal levels. Bree Allred: Yeah. Cassie Milligan: Right? Instead of just, like, in range. Bree Allred: [00:08:10] Yeah. Okay. So let's go into just a little bit of what are, you're mentioning [00:08:15] optimal levels. Yeah. What does that look like? D- in your practice, in your basis of, [00:08:20] like, what do you think is optimal for people? Cassie Milligan: So the funny thing is, is everybody's actually different. [00:08:25] Okay. So yes, I have this range where, you know, when I draw labs, there, [00:08:30] there are these ranges off to the side that basically are based off of [00:08:35] white males, is what they did their research off of. Bree Allred: Don't we love that, right? Yeah. Like, here we are, a [00:08:40] female, and my norms are based on a- Cassie Milligan: Yes ... a Bree Allred: white male. Cassie Milligan: But white male, but also the ethnicity [00:08:45] issue is, I mean, thing, is a piece. Oh, yeah. Right? That because even, like, certain ethnicities will [00:08:50] have a different range. And so, like, what is optimal for me may be different [00:08:55] than what op- is optimal for someone else with a different ethnicity. Yeah. So yes, I [00:09:00] do look at a specific range to optimize. It is a lot more narrow- Mm-hmm is what I'm [00:09:05] looking at. But I also base it on the patient's symptoms. So it's not [00:09:10] just, "Here's a lab, here's a pill." It's about, okay, this is the symptom you're having. [00:09:15] Let's look upstream. Is it something to do with your thyroid or your adrenals, or is it [00:09:20] just your estradiol's off? Like, I mean, it's usually everything is off, right? Yeah. But it's, [00:09:25] it's looking at the bigger Bree Allred: picture. So you're getting the whole pie rather than like, "Oh, we're just looking at one sliver of it." [00:09:30] Cassie Milligan: Right. Yeah. So optimization is very different for everybody, so [00:09:35] that's why... I do personalized wellness plans for my patients, that no [00:09:40] one's the same. And yes, I'm looking at labs kind of the same, a little [00:09:45] different, but it really is based on their symptoms also- Mm-hmm ... and not just this [00:09:50] lab that I looked at. What this number says. Yeah. 'Cause labs can be wrong, symptoms usually [00:09:55] aren't. Right? So if someone's like, "I'm so tired," and their ferritin comes [00:10:00] back at 60, that's not optimal, but- [00:10:05] optimizing that to a better place. Maybe someone at 60, maybe you at [00:10:10] 60, you would feel okay. Yeah. Where someone else at 60 is like, "I feel like garbage. My [00:10:15] brain fog." You know what I mean? Bree Allred: Yeah. So it's a different- This is, I see that number go up, and all of a sudden your symptoms decline. Yeah. Like, that's the [00:10:20] number I'm Cassie Milligan: chasing. That's, yes, that is your optimal. Yeah. So yes, there is optimization, but it [00:10:25] really is based on every- Mm-hmm ... individual person. Bree Allred: And did you see the research that came out that, like, [00:10:30] iron levels are, like, doubling than they're recommended? Or at least iron intake- Cassie Milligan: Oh ... Bree Allred: has [00:10:35] doubled. Is doubled. Like, the recommended Cassie Milligan: intake. Like, dose, like for- Yeah dietary iron? Yeah. I mean, I could see [00:10:40] that. I feel like a lot of people's gut is off because, like- So Bree Allred: they can't absorb it, and then- Yes ... Cassie Milligan: then [00:10:45] we've got an issue And not actually absorb it. Bree Allred: Yeah. Cassie Milligan: Mm-hmm. Yeah, so. Bree Allred: Feel like so fun- ... to just [00:10:50] look and talk at all of these. When you're taking labs, if you do have somebody that's still menstruating- Cassie Milligan: [00:10:55] Yeah Bree Allred: are you trained to get a lab on a certain day of their cycle? Cassie Milligan: Yes and [00:11:00] no. So if they're regular, then yes, I do try and get [00:11:05] labs mid-luteal phase, which is usually about days 19, 20, 21. [00:11:10] Bree Allred: Okay. Cassie Milligan: If they are still cycling I usually do saliva [00:11:15] testing for for hormones, if they're cycling regularly. Yeah. If they're not, [00:11:20] whatever, like, it's gonna be off anyways, right? But again, I take into account [00:11:25] symptoms and not necessarily, necessarily where their labs specifically [00:11:30] are but they usually line up with that. Nice. So yeah, I do saliva testing, and I do [00:11:35] serum testing. So not at the same time, like, I don't do... Like, if I'm doing saliva, I'm not gonna pool [00:11:40] it in the serum. But yes, I do, I do check during a certain time of their s- their [00:11:45] cycle if they're regular. Yeah. But most of the women that are coming in aren't, like, really that [00:11:50] regular- No ... when they come to see me. But yeah, it, it, it is- [00:11:55] usually during a certain time of their cycle. Okay. Bree Allred: Mm-hmm. So you may be hitting, or you're trying [00:12:00] to hit where maybe their symptoms are the worst. Is that, Cassie Milligan: or- No, so that's where actually, like, their levels [00:12:05] should be about level. Bree Allred: Okay. Cassie Milligan: Right? So I am looking at are your [00:12:10] numbers kind of all falling into place during this time? Mm-hmm. Most [00:12:15] everybody's isn't really especially during perimenopause. Bree Allred: Yeah. Cassie Milligan: [00:12:20] So yeah, yeah. Bree Allred: Okay. Let's kind of shift gears for just a little [00:12:25] bit. When we talk about perimenopause- Cassie Milligan: Mm-hmm ... Bree Allred: what are we talking about? [00:12:30] Cassie Milligan: It's so funny because, like, we've been told for so long, right? That like, [00:12:35] You're just a woman, this is what you get to go through. Mm-hmm. Like, deal [00:12:40] with it, right? Yes. Perimenopause, actually women are starting perimon- menopause as early [00:12:45] as 35. So it really is symptomatic. It's perimenopause is getting [00:12:50] your body ready for menopause. Mm-hmm. So it's basically your hormones are gonna start declining. [00:12:55] Your ovaries aren't gonna be releasing the estradiol from your ovaries. That's [00:13:00] menopause, right? Is when your estradiol is no longer- Right ... being, yeah. No [00:13:05] longer being released from the ovaries. But it takes time. Mm-hmm. Perimenopause is a, like, it can [00:13:10] be years of perimenopause. But it's not just the hormones that are fluctuate. I mean, [00:13:15] yes, the hormones are fluctuating, but it's really the symptoms, right? That you're looking at. Like, I don't feel like [00:13:20] myself. Bree Allred: Yeah. Cassie Milligan: I'm tired all the time. Like, I'm having heart palpitations, and I don't know [00:13:25] why. I'm feeling more anxious. I'm gaining weight, and it's around my belly. This is your [00:13:30] body preparing itself for menopause. What's to come. Yeah, what's to come. But [00:13:35] it's 2026. Like, we can gracefully go through menopause. Like, I'm [00:13:40] not trying to optimize someone, as a 20-year-old. Mm-hmm. That's not what I'm trying to do. Bree Allred: And there are [00:13:45] some- Lines of thought, right? Yes. In your field, that that is kind of their [00:13:50] theory. Yes. That's Cassie Milligan: where- Yes ... Bree Allred: and once again, our goal is all the same. We have different ways- All the same sometimes [00:13:55] of going about it. Cassie Milligan: Correct. Bree Allred: But you're like, that's not necessarily in your practice where you're trained optimally, Cassie Milligan: I assume. No, I'm just [00:14:00] trying to help kind of guide them- Mm-hmm ... through into menopause where they're not [00:14:05] feeling crummy, where we're really, like, focusing on those symptoms. Mm-hmm. And [00:14:10] again, like, just looking at labs is gonna tell me a lot, and then pairing it with their symptoms [00:14:15] is gonna Bree Allred: tell me- Is gonna be more. And I love, like, one of the things that I've reiterated on here is, like, [00:14:20] you know your body. Yes. Trust it. Mm-hmm. Like, you know and trust those instincts, and just like you're saying, [00:14:25] your symptoms are going to tell me- So much ... more, and those are more what we're looking at. So it's like- Cassie Milligan: Yes ... Bree Allred: [00:14:30] what you are struggling with, what you know something being wrong in your body, that's what you're working [00:14:35] to- Cassie Milligan: Yes Bree Allred: be your end all game of, like- Cassie Milligan: Yeah ... Bree Allred: that's what we want is your symptom control. Cassie Milligan: [00:14:40] Yes. And I can usually, like, when someone comes in for an initial consult, I can usually- [00:14:45] like figure out like- Mm ... what is off just by [00:14:50] what they're telling me. And like I said, like I, yes, I check [00:14:55] hormones, but it's not just about the hormones, right? So what if their gut is off? [00:15:00] What if their liver is off? What if their adrenals are off? So it's really [00:15:05] looking deep and- Mm ... and more comprehensive because you can feel like [00:15:10] garbage and maybe it's just your adrenals are off, or you can feel like garbage and maybe it's like your gut [00:15:15] that's off. So, you know, we f- we focus on all of that- Yeah like the [00:15:20] whole, the whole package I guess to help that p- those [00:15:25] perimenopausal symptoms. And like I said, I usually can pull like just from someone coming in and being like, "This is what I'm [00:15:30] going through," I can be like, "Oh, this is probably off this..." And then I get the labs and- Bree Allred: And being like- Yeah ... "Yep, [00:15:35] I was right," or, "That surprised me." Yeah. "Something was different Cassie Milligan: than what I thought." Oh, no, there's always Bree Allred: like little surprises. 'Cause there's people like that in us where [00:15:40] it's like you get the history and you're like this, this, this, and this, and then it's... This is where I'm like we'll [00:15:45] probably do a future episode, but we're always like, "Check, don't guess." Like- Cassie Milligan: Yes. Bree Allred: Oh, yeah ... assess it, [00:15:50] don't guess it. Even though- For sure ... we're usually pretty good at guessing. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. Bree Allred: But there is some value of like, [00:15:55] okay, does the back end actually support what I'm finding- The front end ... on the Cassie Milligan: front end. Yes. [00:16:00] Yeah. And a lot of times it do- like, I mean, yes, a lot of times it does, but sometimes it doesn't. Bree Allred: There are some [00:16:05] wild cards in there where it's like- Yeah ... "Whoa, that surprised me." Yeah. Okay. Cassie Milligan: Where it's like, oh, that lab is actually normal- Bree Allred: [00:16:10] Mm-hmm ... Cassie Milligan: but I usually can pick it up somewhere else. Yeah. Yeah. And so, [00:16:15] yeah, even with perimenopause, you're, you do wanna kind of have a full body approach and doing more [00:16:20] comprehensive lab work. Yeah. Just taking a deeper dive in, into health. Bree Allred: Super cool. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. Bree Allred: [00:16:25] Okay. I'm just gonna check based on your knowledge. I tell people this sometimes [00:16:30] when we're talking about perimenopause, I almost say that it's like the little jets on a rocket [00:16:35] in space- ... where you feel like a psht, psht, psht, psht. Cassie Milligan: Oh, yeah. Bree Allred: Dude, and it's like sometimes it decides to do [00:16:40] like a, "Okay, both engines are on." Cassie Milligan: Mm-hmm. " Bree Allred: Oh, we're just spurting a little bit here and there." Yeah. To where it's like we get [00:16:45] these big fluctuations, and I'm like, I don't know why, but that just sat with me as an analogy or a metaphor [00:16:50] for it. Yeah. 100%. That it's like, it's just these little things like jetting off a little bit, and they're doing it really randomly. [00:16:55] Sometimes they decide to go full bore. Sometimes it's like, oh, one is doing this, and the other one's [00:17:00] misfiring, and it's kind of going this- Cassie Milligan: 100% ... Bree Allred: just up and down and up and down- Yes ... and up and down. That's why- Which is why sometimes you're like, [00:17:05] "Okay, I'm not crazy. I'm feeling great." And then other days you're like, "What happened to me?" What is, yeah, Cassie Milligan: why am Bree Allred: I crazy? Something's going on. Yeah. [00:17:10] Oh, Cassie Milligan: great. Yeah. And I mean, that is really not just [00:17:15] your estrogen, progesterone, testosterone. It can be your estrogen having [00:17:20] these surges. So because it's preparing your body to not have [00:17:25] estrogen anymore. Mm-hmm. So you do get these surges where it's releasing a lot, and you have, like, this really [00:17:30] heavy period one month, and then the next month, like, you have nothing, and for two months you don't [00:17:35] have a cycle, and then, like, one month you have, like, just light spotting, and this is [00:17:40] perimenopause. Yeah. This is what's happening. And, and you can definitely support that with [00:17:45] certain things, right? Mm. Certain hormones to help balance that. Bree Allred: If I am a woman [00:17:50] my age- Mm-hmm I'm 43, for all of your viewers. 43. Okay, [00:17:55] 43-year-old woman, and I'm sitting here being like, "I don't feel like myself anymore." Mm-hmm. [00:18:00] Let's talk about maybe the top five symptoms that somebody, that you're hearing recurring in [00:18:05] your office, and maybe the culprit that you're automatically thinking about it. Cassie Milligan: Okay. The big [00:18:10] one, I don't feel like myself- Mm-hmm ... right? Is, is a huge one that most women come [00:18:15] in with, with that. The other thing is, like, I used to sleep so good, [00:18:20] and now I either have struggle- troubles, like, falling asleep or staying asleep, or [00:18:25] both. I am gaining weight in my abdominal area, and, like, [00:18:30] I've always had a really good metabolism, and I feel like my metabolism isn't as great. A [00:18:35] typical night sweats, hot flashes, right? Even at 43, like you can be like, [00:18:40] "Oh, I had like maybe a hot flash. I don't know if that's what it was, but like I'm [00:18:45] waking up warm every night or I'm waking up in a pool of water." Mm-hmm. You know, like [00:18:50] sweat. That's one. The weird ones, my ears itch. [00:18:55] That's like one. Yeah. Bree Allred: Where you're like trying to get that weird like- ... how do I itch the back of my throat [00:19:00] and scratch my ear? Yeah, Cassie Milligan: my ears itch. Or joint aches. I get a, I get a lot of that. [00:19:05] Bloating. So those are kind of like what are pulling people [00:19:10] in. Just fatigue- Bree Allred: Yeah ... Cassie Milligan: is probably another huge one. I would say sleep and [00:19:15] fatigue, and I think a lot of people think that, "Oh, well I'm not sleeping so I'm tired," but there [00:19:20] can be more. Bree Allred: Yeah. Cassie Milligan: More to it. Bree Allred: Well, and I would say I'm getting seven to eight hours of sleep a night, and I still [00:19:25] wake up and I'm like- Cassie Milligan: Yeah ... " Bree Allred: Okay, here we go." Yeah. Like not fully rested. Do you feel- I have the energy or- Yeah. Do you feel rested? Mm-hmm. Like [00:19:30] Cassie Milligan: are you, you know, tired all day long? Bree Allred: Yeah. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. So when I hear [00:19:35] those symptoms, I mean, yes, I'm gonna pull hormones, I'm gonna pull thyroid, but a lot of it [00:19:40] can be your adrenals. It can be your gut. So just really focusing [00:19:45] on getting the right labs- Mm-hmm ... the comprehensive [00:19:50] labs is something that I'm gonna be looking at. And then once I get those, I [00:19:55] usually can be like, "Yep, this is what's off." A lot of times it's our adrenals. I feel like [00:20:00] we as women, we are kind of just told, "This is your life."[00:20:05] Yep. Like, "Move on. Basically you just have to ride the wave." But I also feel [00:20:10] like we have a lot of stress. We have kids, and we've gotta go home, and, like, take care of [00:20:15] the family, and that's like a lot of pressure. I mean, us as business owners- Yeah ... like- For sure. It's like we work a full-time [00:20:20] job I try to Bree Allred: like plus. Yeah. Plus this. And go on. Yes. Mm-hmm. I Cassie Milligan: just, I feel like we are [00:20:25] almost told that, like, we have to be like this. We have to, like, put on a [00:20:30] smile and pretend like everything's fine, and that really actually can [00:20:35] disrupt not just our gut, but our adrenals. And so you know, making sure that you're, you're [00:20:40] checking those is like- Yep really important. I do adrenal testing in saliva, and the [00:20:45] reason why is because if I was to check your cortisol levels in blood- [00:20:50] The most accurate is getting that cor- that morning [00:20:55] cortisol withi- within 30 minutes of waking up. So I always tell my patients this, like, if you're gonna do a morning [00:21:00] cortisol and you wake up at 5:00, like, what lab is open at 5:30? Like, [00:21:05] none, right? Yeah. And so getting that morning cortisol within that 30 to [00:21:10] 45 minutes of waking up really gives me, like, a bigger picture, a more accurate picture of, like, [00:21:15] what's going on with your adrenals. Mm-hmm. So checking the adrenals. Yes, checking the [00:21:20] hormones, right? Like I said, I do it during certain times of the cycle if needed. If you're [00:21:25] irregular, like, I can't really catch your cycle so I'll just kinda check them. But I'm, [00:21:30] I'm not going off the lab value. I'm going off of your symptoms. How it feels. Bree Allred: Mm-hmm. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. So- Bree Allred: The lab [00:21:35] value is just another thing to help... It's another piece of the puzzle- It is ... to give you some guidance and direction. Yeah, Cassie Milligan: [00:21:40] 100%, Bree Allred: but it's- But it's not the Cassie Milligan: whole picture ... it's not the whole picture. So I, again, I don't treat a lab value, I treat a [00:21:45] patient- Yeah ... and their symptoms. Bree Allred: Yeah. If you have somebody that doesn't know medical stuff, let's [00:21:50] talk about just real basics, like what are the adrenal glands? Cassie Milligan: Yeah. So our [00:21:55] adrenals they release cortisol, which is our fight or flight. Cortisol is actually really important. It helps us, [00:22:00] like, get up and get going in the morning, so it should kinda spike in the morning, and then it should [00:22:05] slowly go down and be at its lowest kind of at the end of the day where melatonin spikes. Sure. It's our sleep hormone, [00:22:10] right? So those adrenals, it's, they, there's two of them. They sit on top of our, our kidneys, [00:22:15] and they do more than just release cortisol. It's actually [00:22:20] post-menopausal. It's gonna release some of our estrogen. Hmm. Interesting. Yeah. So it releases a [00:22:25] hormone called DHEA. So there's a bigger picture of adrenals, but that cortisol [00:22:30] is actually really important to look at. So that is our fight or flight, but it [00:22:35] also is, like, it's, it, it is meant to be our fight or flight, right? It's meant to help us with [00:22:40] kind of stress and- Yeah ... and our threat. And it's a good thing. We need that, right? We need it. We [00:22:45] need it. Yes. And when it keeps going and doesn't calm down is when we have a [00:22:50] problem. Right. And so, like, if you continually are spitting out too much cortisol, [00:22:55] your adrenals are like, "Mm, no more," and that morning cortisol can fall. [00:23:00] And with the symptoms of I'm not sleeping, that can be your cortisol's [00:23:05] high at night instead of low at night. Hmm. Yeah. All the different factors that [00:23:10] play into all that. Bree Allred: All the different factors. There's, there, our body is so [00:23:15] fascinating. Yeah. And it really does try to compensate in places that it needs [00:23:20] to. But a compensation is not meant to be the primary drive either. No. So that's, I think, where [00:23:25] we get into troubles is when the compensatory mechanisms are actually now the primary mechanisms. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. And Bree Allred: like- [00:23:30] And they're not meant to be the primary mechanisms- No ... and they burn out. Cassie Milligan: Burned out. Yeah. [00:23:35] Yeah, so you have to, that's why I say you have to take a full body approach, because if your adrenals are off, it [00:23:40] affects your thyroid, and if your thyroid's off, it affects, like, your hormones, like your sex hormones.[00:23:45] So it is kind of that bigger picture. And the gut, the gut's a huge, a [00:23:50] huge piece. Bree Allred: Yeah. Nutrition, the fuel that you're feeding the back end- Yeah ... as it goes, and [00:23:55] can the digestive system adequately absorb what you're bringing in? If you were to [00:24:00] dumb down hormones for me as best you can. Do you know, I mean, I know they're complex [00:24:05] beings. Yeah. They really are- Yeah ... if we were to give them personalities. But if you had to give them, like, a, [00:24:10] I don't know, think of, like, an inside out version of the- Yeah hormones, what would you say they do? Cassie Milligan: Hormones [00:24:15] basically, like, tell our cells to do something. They, [00:24:20] I mean, like, how do I explain hormones? Yeah. They kind [00:24:25] of, they attach to a receptor site and tell it to do something, kind of like a [00:24:30] peptide. Bree Allred: Mm-hmm. Cassie Milligan: Peptides are a little bit different than hormones, 'cause hormones can actually go, like, into the cell [00:24:35] and, and give instruction. So there's different hormones for [00:24:40] different parts of our body- Mm-hmm and help with regulation. So when, I think a lot of [00:24:45] people, when they hear hormones, they just think sex hormones. Mm-hmm. They're like estrogen, progesterone, testosterone. [00:24:50] But there's more than that. There's thyroid hormones. There's adrenal hormones, [00:24:55] right? There's, I mean, there's a spectrum of these hormones that you're looking at. Vitamin [00:25:00] D is a prohormone. Like, we actually need vitamin D to help with hormone processes. [00:25:05] So you can kind of count it as, like, a hormone. Mm-hmm. So they're gonna go and attach [00:25:10] the cell to, a receptor on a cell to tell it to do something, right? Bree Allred: They walk [00:25:15] across the room and flip on the switch. Yeah. Is that a good example? Yeah. It's like- Yeah ... oh, like, I'm [00:25:20] over here. The brain is being like, "Hey, we need to do this." We need this. Right? And then they're saying, "Okay, [00:25:25] number one- Mm-hmm ... you go tell them, turn on the switch so that they'll do this." Cassie Milligan: Yeah. [00:25:30] Yeah. Does that make sense? Yes, it does. Great. Okay. Yeah. So if you were to give estrogen a [00:25:35] personality, what does estrogen do for us? Estrogen helps our mood. It [00:25:40] actually, like, the personality, it, I mean, estrogen is so beneficial in men [00:25:45] and women, not just women. Men need estrogen. So I see men [00:25:50] too. When they come in and they have zero estrogen- Mm-hmm ... it's very [00:25:55] concerning, 'cause they can have bone issues. Yeah. So, like, yes, estrogen [00:26:00] does help our mood. Like, we need emotions. It's okay to cry, right? You don't wanna cry all [00:26:05] the time. Yes. That's usually, like, an estrogen dominance. But it does help kind of balance [00:26:10] us. Bree Allred: Mm-hmm. Cassie Milligan: It is a, a hormone that helps with cardiovascular support. [00:26:15] It helps with bone support. It helps with gut support. I mean, there's so many receptors- Muscles ... [00:26:20] in our brain. Yes. Like, all the things. Yeah. So it's kind of like the [00:26:25] master, like, I would say, hormone. Okay. Yeah. Bree Allred: That drives things. Okay, if we were to [00:26:30] say progesterone's job or personality. Cassie Milligan: I would say progesterone, so it's kind of [00:26:35] like our, like our calming joy. Yeah. Like, I think of, like- Yeah ... joy on, like, inside out. [00:26:40] That's progesterone. Kind of like... Yeah, just like let's be happy, but it also helps with our [00:26:45] sleep. So it's very adrenal supportive. So it does help us, like, fall [00:26:50] asleep and stay asleep, but it is kind of our, our calming [00:26:55] hormone. It does make us... I would say maybe oxytocin is a more- ... a little more for joy. Bree Allred: [00:27:00] Yes. Cassie Milligan: And progesterone is just kind of that calm. Bree Allred: Nice. Cassie Milligan: It's definitely calming. It's Bree Allred: your [00:27:05] Cassie Milligan: whew. Yes. It's gonna balance that happy estrogen hormone. It is a very balancer. [00:27:10] Bree Allred: Yeah. And estrogen, just like you said, estrogen and progesterone can kinda counteract each other and [00:27:15] help each other along. Yes. When I'm talking about it in a uterus perspective. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. Bree Allred: I would give... I tell people, I'm [00:27:20] like, "Estrogen's the fertilizer. It's growing everything." Cassie Milligan: Mm-hmm. Bree Allred: And you gotta have progesterone to [00:27:25] mow it down. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. Bree Allred: It's like- To balance Cassie Milligan: that ... ' Bree Allred: cause otherwise you're getting overgrowth of everything. Right. Tons of [00:27:30] fertilizer is great till you don't have a mower to mow the grass down. Cassie Milligan: Right. Right. Yeah. And [00:27:35] yes, progesterone is great for our uterus, right? But it's also good [00:27:40] for our brain health and our gut health. So just because someone doesn't have a [00:27:45] uterus doesn't mean they can't have progesterone. I know that that is something that some [00:27:50] patients have been told. Bree Allred: Mm-hmm. Cassie Milligan: And that is not correct. Like, you can have [00:27:55] progesterone if you don't have a uterus. You can't have progestin, which is, you know- No ... birth control- No ... synthetic progesterone. [00:28:00] But absolutely you can have progesterone. It is very brain [00:28:05] supportive, adrenal supportive, gut supportive. Bree Allred: So great. Okay, if we're talking testosterone. [00:28:10] Testosterone's personality. That's our personality. This is our personality, right? It's our [00:28:15] motivation. Mm-hmm. Cassie Milligan: It's their drive. It's our endurance. It's, you know, building that [00:28:20] muscle. It's kind of... Yeah, it's that... I mean, if you have too much, it's our [00:28:25] irritability, it's our aggression, but if you have the right amount, it's our, it's our drive.[00:28:30] Bree Allred: Great. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Okay, those are the main three that I think about. What would you say are some of the other major [00:28:35] players that we should give a personality to? Cassie Milligan: Thyroid. Bree Allred: Okay. Cassie Milligan: Thyroid is our [00:28:40] master, kind of our master gland. Like, it really helps regulate everything. So [00:28:45] I would say maybe the personality is the captain right it's of of the ship.[00:28:50] Bree Allred: Uh-huh. Telling everybody what to do. Cassie Milligan: Yeah. Really helps with e- re- I mean, there's thyroid [00:28:55] receptors on literally every organ in our body- Okay ... to help with regulation. Bree Allred: Nice. What's [00:29:00] another major player? Any? Cassie Milligan: DHEA. Okay. Bree Allred: DHEA- And you said that's in the [00:29:05] adrenals- Cassie Milligan: That is- ... or in an Bree Allred: adrenal Cassie Milligan: hormone? Yeah. There's... I mean, 80, 80% of our DHEA is DHEA [00:29:10] sulfate. That is released from our adrenals. The other 20% is released from our [00:29:15] ovaries. I do check DHEA sulfate, right? But this is... I... What kind of [00:29:20] personality? Like, this is gonna help with, like, conver- conversion from, like, estrogen in [00:29:25] females to testosterone in males, so it's, like, kind of like maybe the bus driver getting your hormones going [00:29:30] down the right pathway- Bree Allred: Okay Cassie Milligan: would be, like, your DHEA, which is really, really important [00:29:35] to look at. The other one is sex hormone binding globulin. Ooh. SHBG. [00:29:40] Bree Allred: I've never heard of that one, so let's talk more. Cassie Milligan: Yes. This is a really important hormone, [00:29:45] actually, because this kinda tells me how your hormones are being processed. Mm-hmm. It helps with kind [00:29:50] of- Put, like helping bind them estrogen and testosterone to be [00:29:55] pushed to the liver to be methylated, and then it helps with the excretion. So it's kind of like [00:30:00] making sure, like another guide to get you through the entire process. If you [00:30:05] don't have enough SHBG or if you have too much H- SHBG, it really does affect the way [00:30:10] that our hormones are processed. Okay. Bree Allred: So Cassie Milligan: that's a huge one. That is one that I always check [00:30:15] with all my hormones is sex hormone binding globulin. Bree Allred: Okay. I love it. Any others that you would [00:30:20] kinda tell, you're like, "Okay, these are..." You're like, "There's so many," but- There's so many. Cassie Milligan: But- You're Bree Allred: like, "How many do you wanna know?" ... you know, we could keep going Cassie Milligan: with Bree Allred: [00:30:25] that. Basically let's say one more major player. Cassie Milligan: I mean cortisol. Bree Allred: Okay. Cassie Milligan: [00:30:30] Cortisol is, is... I mean, I think people think cortisol is bad. It can [00:30:35] be if you have like an overabundance of cortisol, but it's actually really important, and [00:30:40] it's important to kinda keep it level- Yeah ... and where it, like in range where it needs to [00:30:45] be. How would I explain cortisol? I don't know like, kind of like what personality, I don't know like [00:30:50] what specific personality- Probably your ramp-upper, right? Yeah. It's like it keeps everything like elevated and heightened- Yeah ... [00:30:55] and like, "Okay, is a bear gonna get me?" Yeah. It sounds silly, but it's that- It [00:31:00] is that That- Yeah, it's that- ... that elevated, heightened- Mm-hmm ... kind of state. Yeah, and it's gonna help us like [00:31:05] get through that heightened state. It's your get up and go. Yeah. Mm-hmm. It's our fight or flight, right? Yeah. Your get up and goer. [00:31:10] Yep. ​ [00:31:15] [00:31:20] [00:31:25] [00:31:30] [00:31:35]

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